We often forget the things we love about those closest to us. We know we like them. We know we love them. We tell them often how much we adore them. But we forget the small details of their mannerisms that make us smile. Spending time together is the best way to remind ourselves of these little subtleties.
We spent the day as a tribe downtown, again. We hit the aquarium, lunch, our favorite ice cream haunt, the park....It was so lovely to just be reminded why we all step to the same beat most of the time.
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| I love the way these two stand often, with their hands behind their backs. I tried getting a photo of both of them but just as I grabbed my camera, Mia began to point. The aquarium was really quite fascinating, so worthy of this academic stance. |
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| Luca kept asking for the sharks. I reminded him every three to four minutes that the exhibit was at the end of the tour. We rounded the corner and there was an 18 foot wall to ceiling tank with several giant beauties staring Luca down. Look who he grabbed as he smiled in delight. Mia hugged him tight and reminded him that sharks were indeed nice. |
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| Mia caught this photo. V and I are partners, co-parents, co-cleaners. We dole out responsibilities and grocery lists. We maneuver drop off times and pick ups. We navigate very tricky work schedules and try to do so gracefully, even though some weeks we fail miserably. Bottom line though? We are friends. The very best kind. We think one another is hilarious, and that keeps us afloat. This life business is so very hard, and we are both acutely aware that we are doing the best we can. A day together reminded us both of the two kids we were when we first met and fell head over heels in love. |
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| The day ended with V and Mia heading off to the Rapids game because of some unexpected tickets with friends which left Luca Lane and myself to our own devices. He happily went bikini shopping with me. Clearly my idea but the kid was a champ. We went to dinner afterward and he was the most delightful date. Almost as delightful as his daddy. We used our crayons to decorate our paper table cloth. And no that isn't a dildo by Luca's name; it is the rocket ship he requested. |